Urgent Situations

My aging parent fell — what to do right now

By Todd Whitehurst · Reviewed August 2026

Call 911 now if:

They can't be woken or are confused, can't move an arm or leg, there's obvious deformity or a possible broken bone, a head injury with any loss of consciousness or vomiting, heavy bleeding, chest pain, or you can't safely help them up.

Call their doctor today if:

No emergency signs above, but there's pain, swelling, bruising, difficulty bearing weight, or this is a repeat fall — even if they insist they're "fine."

Plan ahead if:

No injury and this was a one-time stumble, but you're now wondering whether the home is still safe. See the checklist and next steps below.

Right now

  1. Don't rush to move them if a serious injury is possible — moving someone with a head, neck, or back injury can make it worse. Call 911 and wait for guidance if there's any doubt.
  2. Check for the emergency signs above before anything else.
  3. If it's safe to help them up, do it slowly, and watch for dizziness or pain that wasn't obvious at first.
  4. Write down what happened — the time, what they were doing, and any symptoms — even a minor fall is worth mentioning to their doctor.
  5. Follow up with their doctor in the next day or two even if nothing seems seriously wrong. Falls are also worth mentioning because they can be a sign something else is going on.

This page is general information, not medical advice, and can't assess your parent's actual injury. If you have any doubt about whether this is an emergency, call 911 — it's always the safer choice.

After the immediate moment

A fall is often a signal to look at the home more closely, not just this one incident. The Home Safety Checklist covers what to check room by room, and the Home Safety hub has deeper guides on specific fixes. If this fall is changing what "safe" looks like going forward, the Aging at Home hub and Stay or Go Calculator can help you think through what's next.

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Next Step

Check the home before they're back on their feet