Urgent Situations

My aging parent left the stove on — what to do

By Todd Whitehurst · Reviewed August 2026

Call 911 now if:

There's an active fire, visible smoke, or a gas smell. Get everyone out of the house first — do not try to fight a fire yourself or go back in for anything.

Address today if:

No fire, but this happened and it's the first time you're aware of it, or it's happened more than once — this is worth acting on now, not waiting to see if it happens again.

Plan ahead if:

The immediate situation is resolved and you're thinking through longer-term safety. See the steps below.

Right now

  1. Make sure everyone is safe and there's no active fire or gas leak before anything else.
  2. Turn off the stove and check the kitchen for any damage or lingering hazard.
  3. Consider immediate, low-cost safety fixes — a stove auto shut-off device, or removing stove knobs when unsupervised, can reduce risk quickly while you figure out next steps.

This page is general safety information, not a diagnosis. Forgetting to turn off a stove once isn't automatically a sign of a serious problem, but a repeated pattern is worth taking seriously — this page can't tell you which one this is.

Is this a one-time mistake or a pattern?

Everyone forgets things occasionally. A single incident, especially if your parent was distracted or unwell, may just be that. A repeated pattern — or this incident alongside other changes like confusion, missed medications, or getting lost in familiar places — is worth raising with their doctor and checking against Signs It's Time to Talk. If cognitive changes seem to be part of the picture, the Dementia Decisions hub covers what to do next.

Making the kitchen safer either way

The Home Safety Checklist covers kitchen safety specifically, and the Home Modification Cost Guide has real cost ranges if bigger changes — like an auto shut-off system — end up being worth it.

Next Step

Review the rest of the home